One of the essential things to look for in a relationship is compatibility. You may love each other back to back but if you are not compatible, then the relationship spells doom.
Compatibility is the ability for parties in a relationship to live together in harmony.
Love is not enough for a relationship to strive. A lot of other factors should be considered. One of which is the issue of compatibility. It is a self evaluation of your personality and the person you are planning dating/ marrying. It is very important to carry out this analysis about yourself and your proposed spouse before tying the knot. The word compatibility might mean different things to different people.
What I need in a spouse to survive might be totally different from what yours, therefore, assessing your compatibility level on people’s opinion is not only stupid but also not wise because at the end of the day, you get to be alone in the relationship.
Compatibility ranges from health issues, genotype, character,
Love is not enough and it will be unwise to base your relationship 100% on it, you have got to be honest with yourself and answer some imperative questions about you both. Will she/he fit in your dreams/goals plan? Can you live with her/his dry jokes? And lots more.
Relationship is all about happiness and fulfillment. Finding that person that brings out the best in you,completes you and gives you peace,if not what is the essence? A relationship full of fights and troubles weakens the heart and love. Nothing is more exciting in a relationship than finding the one who loves and understands you.
Yours in Love