As a guy, you should not expect a girl to fall in love by sending just ordinary text messages to her. You need to learn how to make a girl fall in love through text.
If you are one of those who are interested in making your dream lady fall in love with you through SMS and text messages, then you have come to the right place to know how to make a girl fall in love through text.
I have a friend Tunde who has been trying to get this girl’s attention by sending series of text messages to her. What type of messages are we talking about, he claimed the text messages to be love messages right!
On checking out these love messages, I realized they were good love messages, however there were so many things wrong with the way and manner he sent these messages.
While I understand that ladies are moved be emotions unlike guys that are really attracted by what we see. We need to understand that certain styles of sending text messages is what we need to know how to make a girl fall in love with the guys through text.
You should first understand that texting is one of the best ways to get the woman of your dreams. As soon as a lady drops her mobile number for you. It is best you understand that she wants you to keep in touch and would enjoy a form of communication between both of you.
So, you don’t need to wait to get the most perfect text messages through to her! You could first start with the normal communication before you get to some other deeper level of communication with her.
1 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Fractionalization
According to a post I read on SIBG.com, the first way to get a girl to fall in love with you is through Fractionalization.
Now you are wondering what that is, right?
You may want to keep your text message casual, simple and sweet ( A new term I call KICSS). You need to build an emotional connection with the girl of your dreams and keeping your text short, simple and sweet will get her interested in your kind of person.
2 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Know your timing
One of the things you need to understand about texting, dating and finding love is the ability to know when to send your messages.
A lot of guys fall short of this simple technique because they never really considered when is the right time to send those text messages to her. Not all girls are jobless and do not have things to do. Infact most girls have things to do at one point or the other. It will make a lot of sense when you try to leverage her busy work hours to send her a text or not.
You want to send her a text message when she is busy? You need to know what she is doing at that time and send her a text that is in sync with her acitivity. Wish her well through whatever she is doing and get her to ‘SMILE’ through the text.
That said, she will be happy in her activity, recognize and respect the fact that you really care about her.
3 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Make her smile
I just cannot re-emphasize this part enough! What is the importance of sending a loving message to your dream girl and then you cannot seem to make her smile through it.
Hell No! You need to be as creative as you can be.
Ways of achieving this is to make jest of yourself in your text, or just find a way of teasing her. Doing all these allows a girl to have a little laugh, let her guards down, making her more comfortable and getting her to trust your personality.
This builds your attraction level with the woman of your dreams and allows you to build up a string of conversation between both of you.
Ladies love to smile through texts don’t they?
4 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Develop an interest in her life
Ladies love when guys show sensitivity to whatever they do. The best way to achieve this is to reflect your interest in the text message you send.
This will help to feel more comfortable with you and also let her guards down. You can also try to break boundaries and memories by getting into her world. Tell her about what you think you will do in her situation (what she is doing at that time). Tell her about all the things you have done to make yourself a better individual at what you do. You could let her realize how you have come to love yourself as an individual to make you a better person in making friends and adjusting to people in every face of life.
This way, you are trying to create a bond between both of you and she will begin to realize that you are very relatable and interested in her.
5 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Flirt with her
But do not overdo it.
You do not have to be a one man show by flirting with her all the time. When you do this all the time you text her, she will immediately get turned off and bored.
Every sensitive girl will know how to read between the lines to see that you like her and interested in her, and could deal with flirts once in a while. When you now make it a daily affair, she will get turned off entirely.
Try to think through what is happening around you and mix it with your texts to her. Here she will realize that you are not just only interested in her on the surface, but truly mean it.
6 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Let your timing be perfect
You need to practice that art of perfect timing when sending a message to that woman of your dreams. It is one thing to know your timing, it is another to practice the art of perfect timing.
Here is a typical example. How does she respond to your text? Is she usuall quick in response or takes longer time in responding to your texts.
Check for those times she responds quickly and find a trend. What time of the day does she do that? My guess is, in the night!
You can endeavor to make your texts a night affair. Here you can command her full attention and concentration!
7 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Vaguely disqualify yourself
To cut off being termed as too demanding and needy, you will need to make her think you are not qualified to be in pool of who to date.
This should not be a serious affair, really! So you don’t lose your woman along the way. It can be done in a playful way. Playfully pass the I am not your type information and you will see her response in this regard.
Note that it is key that you do this when you are beginning to realize she is interested in you as well, and not when you both are just starting out in your texting.
When you jokingly push a dream girl away, she will also playfully want you back in her life (which she actually means albeit passing the information playfully as well)
So, there is a connection, right?
8 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Make her feel special
This can be done by stroking her ego!
Ladies love empathy a lot. It is important that you recognize what they do and how they do it. Provide helping hands through your motivational text messages while letting her through the messages that you she had influenced your life positively and that you think about her and hope she fares well.
A text to make a beautiful lady feel good is one sure way of getting her into your arms and capturing that woman of your dreams.
9 How to make a girl fall in love through text: Bring her into your world
How do you achieve this?
By telling her about your life.
One of the things that may make a girl go crazy about you is to tell her about your life. You need to make her realize your dreams and ambitions and how a lady like her (you do not have to mention her exactly) plays into your dream lady.
You can begin to tell her about your environment, the issues you are facing, how you are dealing with life challenges.
You can even tell her about your job, a mean boss, a fantastic environment. In doing this, she would realize that you are bringing her into your world as well and that you want her not just as an ordinary friend but someone who you could trust with your personal stories. This will make her warm up to you, relax and trust you.
10 How to make a girl fall in love through text: What about suspense
You text a girl and ask her. Hey, Is it true?
I am sure she will respond and say, What? There you have her attention, and remember emotion = attention.
The next thing you need to do is try ignore her reply for about 30 minutes to one hour. She will be in suspense trying to figure out what exactly is true! Then you can taka advantage of the suspense to pass an important and valuable information to her.
It could a breaking news you heard that moment that could impact on her day positively or something you noticed about her that you may want to confirm the authenticity or not.
Whichever ways it is, you have awoken the feelings of suspense, and it is left to you to use it to your advantage.
Try not to do this to often so it doesn’t become stale.
– Please do not use short codes in texts, even if she does, you shouldn’t.
– Try not to ask to many questions at the same time, it becomes monotonous and boring, keep it short,simple and straight to the point but not to the point of being cold, so you don’t come across as been overtly curious.
– Do not text her through out the day, find a perfect time and stick with it ,but try not to make it too routine, becomes boring and predictable after a while.
– DO NOT SEND NUDE PHOTOS, do not try this until such a time when you both feel comfortable doing so. A lot of guys do this and it sure comes out as being desperate, cheap and childish…its off putting so please don’t do it.
– Do not text immediately she texts you, except its urgent. You may come across as been clingy, needy and jobless, take a chill pill bro and give it sometime.
– Do not wait a week before texting a girl, if she was gracious enough to give you her number, it means she intends for communication to take place, text her almost immediately you get her number, remember this is not the same thing as waiting for her reply and then texting immediately, don’t get it twisted ‘alright’??
Stick with these tips on texting that beautiful damsel to falling in love with you, you’re going to have her eating out of your hands and loving you sooner than you expected.
The ultimate in any relationship is face to face communication and professing your love and showing affection ,if you’ve met her earlier prior to sending her messages, great if not, text away but there is need to meet her to show her all the love you’ve been texting.
So guys, what are you waiting for…..get going, share this post with your friends, spread the word.
Now that you have learned how to make a girl fall in through text. What is next for you?
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