The first time you hear about a threesome fantasy from the mouth of your husband, it can be quite shocking for a lot of women, for obvious reasons! However, the fantasy of inviting another person into a couple’s bed is not as rare in men or even women as most of us think.

Unfortunately, there are a number of negative impacts to actually bringing this fantasy alive, which range from complications in the actual relationship that you two share, right up to the fear of contracting STDs to name just a few. So, does that mean a ménage à trois is out of the question? Well, it doesn’t have to be because we have a few ideas that might help you to fulfill your husband’s (and maybe even your’s) threesome fantasy after all.

Talk About it with Him

Engage in verbal conversation or text each other in ways that illustrate everything you and your husband would be doing if such a fantasy really were to happen. Talking about it or texting those fantasies is usually quite arousing and just like a majority of coital fantasies out there, it can be satiated via chats only. It is better if the third-person is not anyone you two know personally, as that can lead to complications as well. However, the tendency to do so might be present and may prove to be more exciting from a purely coital point of view.

Introduce the Third Partner in the Form of a Doll

A cheap doll is affordable and will do the job better than anything else that you can come up with, short of hiring or finding an actual human being. In fact, one may go as far as saying that there is no better, safer and more realistic way to enjoy a threesome than to introduce a doll in your bedroom.

If you are wondering how it beats an actual human partner, we would have to remind you that dolls cannot have STDs and they do not strain relationships! You can go for higher priced dolls, of course, but the ones that Ryan from CyberDear recommends cost a fraction of high-end models, without sacrificing much at all.

Be Bold

Be bold and keep those curtains open the next time you are making love, as studies show a lot of the coital excitement related to having a threesome originates from the sensation of being watched.

This one might be a bit tricky though, given that we live in a time when everyone owns a DSLR, a smartphone and everything else they need to make a pornographic film out of your lovemaking session and sell it on the internet! To be safe, use films on your window glass that makes sure you can see people outside, but the people outside cannot really see you.

Introduce Roleplaying

On the off chance that you have never watched a pornographic film before, then God bless you! Just in case you have though, you probably know how this goes. The repairman or the plumber come in to fix the sink and you suddenly don’t have any money available to pay them with. The obvious solution to this would be paying him back with coital favors, of course. This is just one of many scenarios that will let your husband feel like a different man, and you will assume the role of a stranger as well.

If you and your husband will not settle for anything less, you can hire a professional to fulfill a threesome fantasy without getting emotionally entangled, but that still comes with the risk of STDs we already discussed, not to mention, even paid coitus can come in between relationships more than one might think.

 

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