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Dee’s Inbox: I Need Help, I think I Am in Love with My Sister

i think i am in love with my sister

I am suffering. This is unbearable, and I need to tell everyone my story before it chokes me to death. Please I don’t want to deal with the prejudice of what 90% of you in here will say! Just be kind and listen to my story; I think I am in love with my sister.

You think this is a joke? Hell No, it isn’t. I am not a retard, and I am not in the least confused. My heart beats for her. She was two years younger than I am, so we were not really far apart in age and stature.

It started with us both  from our younger days, being at loggerheads with each other, fighting and aiming at each other’s throats. We were competitors in the house. It wasn’t like we really liked each other back then infact.

But something changed when I got into the University, I realized that I missed her more than ever and we got close; Calls, messages and all that.

As I got into the University, I started to think about her. How obsessed I am with her and how I needed to protect her from all the young men out there. I see how girls’ hearts are broken and I don’t want none of that to happen to my sis. I became over-protective, checking out on her every now and then. Not a day will pass without me having to check up on her, to tell her how I miss her.

At first it was pretty normal, till I started having wet dreams, with her in it. She would appear in my dreams and then I would wake up the next morning wet with ‘my manly milk’ spread all over my boxers.

She came visiting every now and then, cooked for me and did my laundry. Even I could not get really physical with the girlfriends I had then because she was always there, telling me who to date and who not to. She was like a mother to me.

Two years ago, and a year after graduation, I got a job in a location close to where she is presently schooling. She now spends weekends at my place and I feel so calm and in love whenever I am around her. I am contemplating on her moving from her hostel to my house so we could share the apartment together.

We got so close to the extent that she would do my nails, ask me to massage her legs whenever she is stressed from school and all. She would rest on my legs while watching TV, and she would allow me pet her head and rub my hands along her hair. We hug a lot more now and I peck her on the cheek whenever she goes off to school. I still love her as a sister though, but it just feels a little bit more. So crazy, pure and true. My heart beats bad for her and I feel more alive with myself

I feel happier and more contented with life whenever she is around, although I feel strongly about her now more than ever, I am scared of telling her. I know this is crazy, as in how I feel. But that’s just the way it is.

I am thinking of telling her next week that I am crazy in love with her but I need help before I get myself into trouble. Nobody knows yet, not even family and friends.

She breaking up with one ‘boy’ in the University did not help matters. I feel I needed to do more, protect her and infact marry HER.

I need HELP!

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    September 14, 2017 at 10:00 am

    I think you need a girl seriously so that you can put mind off your sis…you need to fall in love with another girl and dont make a mistake by telling your sister…Bro remember nothing can come out of the love you have for your sister so let go and look elsewhere. God bless

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      September 14, 2017 at 10:17 am

      Thanks for the comment. He is reading as well.

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    Vanessa Yvonne sualeze
    September 14, 2017 at 11:41 am

    I think you see too much movies. Stop seeing that movie called Games of Thrones, it may be an influence to you… Incest was shown in the. Movie which made it seem like its no big deal, 2, talk to someone about it. Someone you really’s not normal to love your sister to the point of having wet dreams… It’s not normal… And lastly… Pray to God!

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    Tayo Knights
    September 14, 2017 at 11:29 pm

    Bro, renew your mind via the scriptures and stay away from things that can spur you into having unholy thoughts. It will be safe to stay away from your sister for a while

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    September 15, 2017 at 2:49 pm

    I feel sorry for him. The problem originated from when your harboured that feeling. First of all you must remeber that this is Nigeria, not some Asian country where you could marry your sister and get away with it. So marrying your sister is out of it, except you are planning to abscond with her without ever coming back. Secondly, if you are a Christian or a Muslim then you must know know God frowns at incest. I wony judge you because I know that once a feeling takes over you, there’s little you can do about it.

    If you want help as to whether or not it’s a good thing, I’ll tell you it’s bad. Don’t tell your sister. Cos it may bring a rift between you too if she doesn’t feel thesame. Please help yourself by maintaing a distance with her, then get a girlfriend for yourself.

    If your mind’s made up as to whether to keep having a romantic feeling towards your sister, I’ll still say don’t tell her except you are 100% sure she feels thesame way for you. Then both of your better be ready to become outcasts.


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    October 2, 2017 at 6:02 pm

    Pray to GOD,with GOD evritin z possible,he will take control,BUT DON’T make an attempt to tell her ELSE sumtin will hapn

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