Unless you started out with the kind of Cinderella love story, then it is suffice to say that this post is not meant for you.

The thing is, not all of us actually find that amount of luck and awesomeness to truly conclude that our relationship was made in heaven. Majority of the ladies presently reading this post has at one time or the other gotten into a relationship that hit rock bottom.

Sometimes, the reasons why our relationships went off the rails is beyond us, we try to pin point what exactly happened, not reaching any reasonable conclusion, but in most cases and times, there is this moment of clarity and then calling the relationship off becomes inevitable.

I am sure there will be a moment or even moments when it hits you like ‘ a deep punch on your face and then you realize that it’s time to call it quits and drop the relationship baton.

There are so many girls out there, even young ladies of marriageable age who are in the present situation, but are tied to the guys because they believe the relationship is still worth a shot.

Have you had that moment when you felt your relationship was not worth the effort? That point you realized your relationship is a lost cause. There is no point saving a lost individual anymore.

Please share by dropping your comments below. Let us learn from you, As I usually try to preach, experienceis the best teacher and while you are there enjoying your new relationship/marriage, please share that defining moment you gave up on your past relationships with us.

Let us Learn…

Yours in Love


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2 Responses

  1. Mr Amodu

    I think I’ve got something to share, I was once in a relationship that I term the best in the world, only for me to discover that all my efforts was in vain, always on my mind, whatever that concerns then was my responsibility. But today we hardly call twice in a year. Today I find it too difficult to fall in love because of my past experience.

  2. Tosin

    The moment his mother’s name came up in every discussion, I knew it was time to run. Ain’t nobody got time for a mama’s boy


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