BBNaija disqualification of Ksquare – It is no longer news that the duo of K-brule and Khloe has been disqualified from the Big Brother Naija, Double Wahala 2018 edition after earning 3 strikes – A set of warning that after it reaches 3 warnings, the contestant involved would be automatically disqualified from the house.
I am very sure that a lot of us would not have been too surprised about this disqualification as you would agree with me that the pairing of K-Brule and Khloe popularly known as K-Square was just a ticking time bomb waiting to happen.
History of the BBNaija Disqualification of K-brule and Khloe
If you had watched the Saturday night party and the attempt of K-brule at kissing Leo to what happened afterwards then you would know what really transpired at the party and the Big brother house.
But if not, then here is the gist:
K-Brule and Khloe Strike 1
Recall that K-Brule had previously been issued one strike when he jumped from the bedroom after he walked into Anto kissing Lolu. A situation that also automatically affected his partner.
K-Brule and Khloe Strike 2
After the party on Saturday, 18 February 2018, K-Brule was drunk from an overdose of alcohol intake and wanted to kiss Leo. This led to exchange of words between the pair where Khloe verbally abused K-Brule by calling his mother a wh*re and him a bast**d. As a result of this provocation, Big Brother issued Khloe a second strike, which also affected K-Brule.
See the video below:
K-Brule and Khloe Strike 3
K-Brule was in turn given a strike for the intention to abuse Dee-One, and this earned the team K-Square a third strike, a position of automatic disqualification.
Relationship lessons to learn from the BBNaija disqualification of K-Square
1. Run away from toxic relationships before it destroys you:
No matter how sane you intend to stay in that relationship, a toxic relationship will never keep you sane. Instead of looking for how to create an avenue for peaceful co-existence between yourself and your partner, just get the hell out!
It has been said so many times, and now it is obvious from what we all saw in the Big brother house, a toxic relationship will DESTROY YOU! Get out Now!
2. Emotional Abuse is a killer
So now you know what emotional abuse can do to you. Right?
Of course you know who the emotional abuser was and what it led to eventually! All the lessons are just there for everyone to see. I’m sure when the realization of disqualification hits both parties, they alone will be left to ‘rue their chances’.
They really stood a chance of getting to the finals, didn’t they?
3. Attitude is everything
Being emotionally unstable is not a thing of the ladies only. A lot of guys are even worse. K-brule seemingly was the emotionally unstable guy and Khloe was the uncouth, and terrible lover. You can as well see the combination as being crazy and dangerous.
The moment you realize that your partner needs help emotionally and you cannot help, then refer him to professional counselors or psychologists who can. Why rub it in when you know your partner is in a situation and needs to be helped? You are not just helping the relationship but destroying it.
4. Relationships have rules, stick by them
Support your partner, help him/ her, love him/ her as much as you love yourself. These are basic relationship rules that should be adhered to and unfortunately, K-Squared failed in this regard, now see where it has gotten them.
Need I more say more on relationship rules?
5. Being selfish is harmful
If you are selfish, then you are not worthy to be called a lover, a partner or to be in a relationship. Relationships are for people who are not perfect but have come together as one to build perfection. You cannot be selfish as a single and get into a relationship and still be selfish. The results are sad and damaging because instead of supporting the relationship with your selflessness, you are taking advantage of the other to destroy than build.
6. Be Supportive
This cannot just be overemphasized. Being a support system to your partner goes a long way. Look at the team #Mina- Nina and Miracle, as relegated as they seem in the eye of the housemates, Nigerians think otherwise and that was the reason for the highest votes in the house.
Doing right by your partner is such a big deal because it not only shows that you stay true and dedicated to your relationship, but it paints you in a good light and gives your love life the avenue for growth. It was obvious that K-Brule and Khloe never really cared for each other and never had the goal in mind, if they had they would have worked on their differences and supported each other to the end.
What did they say about relationship that builds foundation on support. Anyone?
7. Never ever disrespect your family!
Never ever bring your parents into your relationship fights. What for? Why? Do you need to do that? Relationships are about two mature people, if you cannot deal then why enter into the partnership in the first place? You both needs to recognize that the relationships are all about you and not your immediate or extended family, so you need to create a gap and respect each other extended family space.
You should NEVER DARE to disrespect your partner’s family. It shows lack of depth and mutual respect not just for the extended family but for each other.
8. That brings me to mutual RESPECT
In as much as loving relationships are about bringing all our love, silliness and pettiness to the table, there should also be avenue to have mutual respect for each other and one another. What is a the essence of a fruitful relationship when both partners do not have respect for one another and always going for each other’s throat?
It is the way you treat your partner with respect that will make others value your relationship!
9. If you cannot deal with Alcohol, don’t go close
The attitude of K-Brule with Alcohol just seemed like a well scripted movie that will play out its part. It was obvious from day 1 that a lot of the housemates cannot deal with the repercussions of being drunk to stay sane. Why drink too much when you cannot get a hang of yourself? Why destroy a potential opportunity for you to become a celebrity and have a great future because of alcohol.
This is a lesson to all Nigerians who find solace in alcohol, learn to stop when it is time to. Self-control is KEY!
10. And finally Self-Control
This is better saved for the last, don’t you think?
Do you think it is better if either of both parties had kept shut and dealt with the partnership issues one on one, things wouldn’t have escalated to the point of getting qualified? Two fighting and giddy heads will never breakthrough. if you are stuck in a partnership cum relationship like that of Khloe and K-brule for strategic reasons, then learn to have self-control over mundane issues.
Look at the bigger picture, the possibility of being the WINNER at the end of the DAY!
The ability to deal with a partner’s inadequacies solves a whole lot for budding relationships and this is very well evidenced in the K-Square partnership.
It is fine that I conclude with the following reactions of BBNaija disqualification of Ksquare on social media:
BBNaija disqualification of Ksquare on Facebook:
Neither K.Brule nor Khloe affected each other if you ask me, they never really came to the full realisation that they were a pair and whatever happened to either of them would happen to them too. They weren’t looking out for each other, even Khloe as at today was the one telling other housemates the reasons they should stay away from K.Brule — she said he’s a very terrible dude who loves to frustrate people and all. How many of her fellow housemates come around defaming their other half to her? I don’t even want to talk about her overall attitude in the game as well.
There’s more to the Big Brother show than doing insensitive things and call it “being yourself”, if being yourself is not good enough, you should work on yourself, at least for the sake of the game. K.Brule is quite psychologically unstable, he only needs a trigger to erupt and Khloe always pulls it. Apart from the alcohol effect on K.Brule, Khloe was always looking down on him and bullying him with her words and actions, both openly and privately. He was the one being frustrated.
Without sentiment, I believe they both still have a lot of things to fix on themselves and they both had to leave. In one sentence, I think they were just a wrong pair — Khloe would have been a better housemate if she was paired with someone like Leo, and Brule wouldn’t have been this frustrated if he was with another pair too.
Even the fact that they knew each other before the show and had a history had a negative influence on them.
I feel for them regardless of everything. I can’t imagine a duo who were the least expected to leave the house yesterday. It shocked everyone.
The truth is that pair was wrong from the beginning. K brule is somewhat unstable and Khloe is volatile. The two of them combined was an active volcano waiting to explode.
K.Brule got two strikes and one for Khloe.
On today’s strike, I blame both of them. Khloe went too far with what she said to Brule last night and as for Brule, he needs to grow up and try as much as possible to control himself whenever he’s drinking alcohol.
Bye bye to #Ksquare
BBNaija disqualification of Ksquare on Twitter:
K-square – "One of the best lessons you can learn in life is to master how to remain calm." #BBNaija
— Solomon Adetunji (@xtreme4grafix) February 18, 2018
K-Square When two people really care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work, no matter how hard it is. #BBNaija
— Solomon Adetunji (@xtreme4grafix) February 6, 2018
Khloe has always been a TOXIC fellow. My only sadness is that she dragged K-brule into her web of destruction.
Wish the young man the very best of luck for the future indeed.#BBNaija
— #BBNAIJA (@TWEETORACLE) February 18, 2018
K-Brule and Khloe are the biggest losers in this world. I mean how can a dirty attitude make you lose an opportunity of winning N45m in this Nigeria economy where minimum wage is still less than N20k?
— AsEDeyHot (@AsEDeyHotNG) February 18, 2018
K-Brule and Khloe have been disqualified from the #BBNaija
– Bad attitude limits progress
– Toxic relationship kills destinies
– learn how to handle your emotions
— Red Cap Chief (@Henrikachi) February 18, 2018
But khloe was toxic sha, so uncouth, loud, rude with no regards for the impact of wot she says to people!! The emotional torture she meted out on k-brule was too much. K-brule on his part was immature and an uncontrollable drunk. So adios to both of them #BBNaija
— Roxy (@Ebironke) February 18, 2018
Khloe Killed K-Brule’s Game.. she was too Toxic for him.. that dude just needed To be understood and they would have gone far in the game. Wish he was paired with Vandora or Ahneeka #bbnaija
— ChuChu BeyonCé ♌ (@ChuChuBeyonCee) February 18, 2018
K-Brule and Khloe disqualification.
Words are very important mind your words when speaking
Rules are sacrosanct. Obey laws.
Drink responsibly. Don't go all drunk because it is free.
Finally, Check your attitude : it may make or Mar you. #BBNaija
— kingsley chukwu (@kingsleychukwu3) February 18, 2018
What lessons did you learn from the BBnaija disqualification of Ksquare? Share your thoughts in the comments.
Disclaimer: This content does not in any way represent the true position, attitude and personalities of K-Brule or Khloe outside the Bit Brother House. This is only an analytical inference from the drama in the #BBNaija 2018 and the various reactions drawn from social media.