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Dee’s Inbox: I Want to Date Two Lovers at the Same Time

two lovers at the same time

I want two lovers at the same time. I have two guys on my neck presently, asking me out and saying that they love me.

One works with the Navy, the other in the Nigerian Army
One is tall and dark, the other is short and fair
The two of them says they love me, and that is where my problem is. I think I love the two of them.

I know that according to our culture having two boyfriends at the same time is bad, but these men have met themselves and they say they don’t mind being my boyfriends as I am really into the two of them and wouldn’t mind having two boyfriends.

What if we date secretly without anyone knowing that.

Or better still, is there a way I can know which one loves me more from the two of them so that I can choose?

 

 

 

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    Rose jude
    November 13, 2018 at 8:09 pm

    I have dated this guy for two years now and he talked about marriage at a point. Though he loves in Germany and I in Nigeria but we got along real well.its all started the very month he came to Nigeria, he had told me about his son with an Ethiopian woman. I thought that won’t me much problem then finally he came home this year July and I met him for the first time. It was fun together but I noticed he wasn’t talking about marriage anymore though I went to his house and he came to mine.
    He returned to Germany and the conversations was not so interesting anymore until he finally told me move on with dnt other man being that he is not ready for marriage.
    He said he only wants us to be in a relationship. How can I be in a relationship with him when looking out for another man? Suddenly things grew cold between us and right now am just the shadow of myself. My life is no longer the same.
    I am broken, shattered, saddened.
    I pray everyday that he returns to me cos he was everything to me.
    I keep crying everyday and don’t know what to do.
    I love him so much it’s hard to move on.
    Please help me.

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      Detola Deedee
      November 13, 2018 at 8:20 pm

      Hi Rose. Who can change a man from what he intends to do for himself? Who can stop a man from making known his decision. I believe you shouldn’ have gotten yourself too deeply involved with a man who lives far away from you. It is time for you to move on darling. Focus your attention on other things that will take your thoughts of him and you will be better.

      Do you want him to promise you marriage while he keeps sleeping with and eventually dumps you. It is better for you now and I am happy he is very honest about his thoughts with you.

      You will be fine darling. I am available on https://wa.me/2348067484109 if you need further discussion on moving on.

      Regards
      DeeDee

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