We all keep looking out for someone to complete us. We grow up wrapped up in some fairy tale fantasy that there’s someone out there for us. A special someone designed specifically for us. Someone that will like what we like and laugh at our jokes and would be there with us in the storm. … Read more
I saw a friend recently who told me about a guy she likes a lot. I was so happy for her knowing fully well she hardly likes guys. She screamed further. “But BJ, we have never spoken one word to each other before” What happened? Why? The guy doesn’t like you? or what? you proving … Read more
Hmmmm….I really don’t know how to start this discussion and I’m not sure I can do better justice to it. I will try my best though. How would you choose your spouse? I grew up in the conventional way of just liking a guy and that’s enough to start a relationship. When I started dating,I … Read more
Cough, Huff, Puff You will see them In their droves they arrive Enmasse they survive They dress outrageously Skimpily and Unreasonably A straight boy’s palava A young man’s dilemma Their diminished sense Is no match for my 1 pence Their insecurities blow off their skins like heaven’s snows Available to scavenge Ready to devour Get … Read more
I sincerely can’t comprehend when someone says “he hasn’t called me for the past one week or she rarely calls me”. Guys, if you are in that situation your boyfriend/girlfriend or fiance hardly calls you or messages you or keep a constant relationship with you, then you are so single. Oh yeah! Communication is one … Read more
The point is, in life, even if we die alongside a lot of people, you will still be buried alone. Talk less of when you even die alone. You will die alone! I understood the concept of death at a very young age, losing my roomie in 2008, while I was in the second year … Read more