Hi FanMily
This week holds another edition of our ‘Must Watch’ Video on Youtube. Yipee!!
Remember DeeDeesblog is all about life, love, photograpphy and everything to celebrate all these.
Last week, I showed you an hilarious video of ‘The Stupid and Weirdest things we do in our Relationships’ by Harjit and Jaz of YoutwoTV. If you haven’t seen that video, it is best you watch it here.
This week, it is just going to be about a video of Cassie Diamond and Brian Redmon. Cassie and Brian are lovers of relationships and Youtube.
You don’t know ’em?
Not to worry, you can follow Cassie on Instagram @claycupcakes4 and Snapchat at cassiediamonddd LA. You can also follow and subscribe to Brian on Youtube
This week’s relationship vid is on ‘our expectations in relationships and what we actually get in reality’
For a lot of us, relationships and loving is not all about the roller coaster. We all get the initial gra-gra, and all the mushy of loving, thinking that it would last for so long. However, the truth is, it doesn’t work that way all the time. We are created imperfectly perfect, that is to say we all have flaws and as such will fall short of certain expectations in the relationship.
The onus now lie on both parties, partners, lovers to continue to keep the fire of love burning regardless of whatever the situation may be.
Okay, now I am going to start with what I noticed in the video relationship expectations.
Sit tight:
1. Every lady expects a very cute morning text.
See en? This can only really happen in the intial ‘gra-gra’ phase.
Reality
You can/should not really expect a guy to continue to send you cute messages everyday. LOL! It is just the way we are wired.
Passionate love do not last forever, some other life issues set in which causes the initial plan to diminish.
I can so relate with this part of the video. Can you?
2. Expecting super cuddle and all the other things in-between
You are in bed with him/her or together in the house and you just expect to be cuddled all the time. You know all the lovey-dovey kinda relationship rubble.
Reality
LOL! You think there won’t be little fights? Or you think you both won’t get disgusted when you sleep on the bed? He snores, you sleep talk. Weird differences yet you expect cuddle and all the love.
Wake Up!
3. Romantic Dinners
You have expectations and have day dreamed about how romantic your dinners will be. All the love, the emotions, the easy flow, synergy in discussions and synchronisation of thoughts and convictions.
You expect all the love and emotional pass-through between you and boo.
Reality
You realise that the dinner is just on bed with pizza and maybe a bottle of coke, and just random gist, and regular gossips!
Not as expected!
Let me leave you to do justice to the rest of the video.
Do not forget to drop comments if you can really relate with what Cassie demonstrated in the video. I can actually relate though.
All has happened to me!
Yours In Love
DeeDee
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