I saw this post on Nairaland and figured it will be important to bring it here for my readers to help this troubled guy out. See excerpts below:

Good evening members in the house. I purposely brought this topic to this section (family) cos I believe i’ll have a mature responses and contributions.

I’ll try to be brief as possible.

I met this lady 2014 but we started dating November last year. It took her a whole year to accept dating me.

But then, she told me that, there was something she would tell any man who desire to marry her but it depends on the level of seriousness from the man.

Then, I took what she planned telling her hubby to be nothing serious not until the relationship began to wax stronger. After being in the relationship for a while, I discovered she posses virtually all the qualities I desire in a lady and wouldn’t mind spending the rest of my life with her.

I tried to make her tell me what she has in mind that she plan to tell her hubby to be, she refused. At this stage,  my parents and hers were aware of our relationship and we planned to have our INTRODUCTION this June.

I proposed to her last week, she accepted and busted to tears. Initially, I thought it was tears of joy, not knowing it was something entirely different from my thought.

I took her home with different feelings within me since she couldn’t stop crying. When we got to their house, before she alighted, she hold my hands and told me me ‘she was HIV positive’

I was startled for minutes. She said I should think about it if I still want the relationship.

I made enquiries from Doctors if both of us can marry and they said YES but I’m still not convinced.

Please, I need your sincere advice on this issue.

 

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    So sorry, if he can go with the complications then I advise he continues but if not he should call it off cos a broken engagement is not a divorce.

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