A Nigerian lady, Bolatito Onipede Adebayo took to her Facebook page in the spirit of Valentine to write on How to tell if a man loves you. We found the post beautiful and interesting, and we hope you do too.
When a man loves a woman
Can’t keep his mind on nothin’ else
He’d trade the world
For a good thing he’s found
If she is bad, he can’t see it
She can do no wrong
Turn his back on his best friend
If he puts her downWhen a man loves a woman
Spend his very last dime…. Michael Bolton.I think we can find some of the answers in this lyrics but …..
One of the things to look out for is, if a man loves you he will RESPECT you.
A lot of people think that all what you need in a relationship is love but you are getting it all wrong; because respect is crucial too.
You can’t love someone you don’t respect.
However, he doesn’t just respect you, he respects what you both share, he knows what you both have is fragile and needs to be protected.
When a man truly loves you he doesn’t say it quickly that he has fallen for you, he takes his time to say that word because he wants to say it when he MEANS it.
A man who says he loves you quickly isn’t in love with you, all he wants to do is to smash you.
A man who truly loves a woman matches his ACTIONS with his WORDS.
If a man truly loves you he will not only tell you but he will act it.
He will make you his PRIORITY and always keep his word.
A man who truly loves you won’t send CONFLICTING SIGNALS.
He wont put you in a position where you doubt the way he feels and where you stand in his life.
A man who will go on days without COMMUNICATING with you isn’t your love boo..
When a man loves you, he will check up on regularly to make sure you are okay.
A man who truly loves a woman will treat her like a QUEEN.
He GIVES without expectations, he does it out of goodness from his heart.
A man who truly loves you will make you better and give you peace of mind.
7 Comments
Onwe Damian
February 19, 2019 at 3:28 pmNice write up. Keep the good work flowing
philia
July 24, 2019 at 4:31 pmif u meet a guy on a first date and want to av sex with u,is dat true love?barely a month u both meet and he wants u to be pregnant for him even when he has not known ur family,is dat love?he always ask when u saw ur period last to calculate ur ovulation,
Detola Deedee
July 25, 2019 at 4:57 pmYou have to be careful about this type of man.
You need to ask yourself the question too. Does he really love you? Getting pregnant is a big deal, and he needs to at least know your family. Please be careful.
Eunice
September 27, 2019 at 6:04 pmHIV and STDs. Have you ever head of that. Psychos and control freaks can you identify them. The smartest lady will learn from woman who fell into the danger of loving ignorantly. Sex is marriage asset that you share with you husband.
nyongesa jesca
November 15, 2019 at 1:41 amgreat encouragement indeed have learned much thanks
Cherub
March 14, 2021 at 7:38 pmKeep it up
watsemwa Merida
May 15, 2021 at 5:07 pmPlease be care ful with such a person and make sure you learn him better before another date