Have you ever been in a quagmire regarding questions that will serve as conversation starters with her? Do you ever get that feeling of lack of question to ask her?
Do you feel like if you’re asked things about her you’ll only know basic answers? Are there moments in the relationship when the conversation gets awkward? This happens when you get too comfortable and feel you know things about her when you actually know nothing at all.
Everyone fancies an interesting relationship because at one point, you’ll eventually get tired of being in a boring relationship. But, how can you have an interesting relationship when you have no deeper knowledge about your girl?
What conversation would you bring when your only knowledge about her is her favorite food/color?
In a relationship, you’re supposed to be the better half of your partner. In other words, you both are supposed to be like twins, if possible, even completing each other’s sentences and working together to achieve goals. Not just relationship goals, but also reality goals.
How would you achieve this by knowing just her favorite food/color? Since asking such questions seem so cliche.
Well fear not! We are here with a solution for such problem.
There are various ways of sparking and igniting the flame in a relationship. One of such ways is to plan a date! Not just any regular date, but a date that’ll leave a lasting mark on her.
Thereafter you look for a very good conversation topic that will act as the perfect conversation starter for you.
I have noticed that Negligence is a peculiar problem in relationships nowadays. Just because you guys have been together for say five months and above, you feel there’s no need to put in extra effort to impress her. Well you have it wrong!!
Lack of effort results in a boring and tiring relationship and the end result might not be nice.
This year, plan nice hangouts, have some alone time that’ll just involve getting to know each other no matter what you think you already know. Let the hangout be an avenue where you can be goofy without prying eyes, and be free to express yourself.
Forget the basic questions when getting to know each other. Start up the conversation with questions that’ll get her to open up to you.
One may ask examples of such questions. Are there questions I can ask that’ll seem personal and at the same time not make her feel uncomfortable? Yes and yes!!
There are numerous of such questions, in fact questions that may even serve as everyday conversation topics for both of you. A very important thing to note is the manner in which you ask it.
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We are going to give you a list of 50 questions we have compiled. Questions that’ll spark that conversation and still make you see life from her perspective.
Question that will help you know why she’s the way she is, and be a guide for you to act accordingly in the relationship.
1. IF YOU COULD LISTEN TO JUST ONE SONG FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE, WHAT WILL IT BE?
Get to know this and play it to put her off a bad mood, as it’s obviously a favorite for her
2. WHAT’S YOUR LEAST FAVORITE ATTRIBUTE ABOUT YOURSELF?
Get to know that attribute about her that she doesn’t feel confident about. Help her build her self-esteem about it.
3. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW?
With this question, you now know what to watch when your girl is around.
4. WHAT’S YOUR ADDICTION?
It may be a movie, a book, a food; an activity, etc. know her addiction and join her in it most times. You could also share your own addiction with her.
5. WHAT TYPE OF GUYS ARE YOU USUALLY ATTRACTED TO?
Well not to make you feel down if you discover that you’re not her type. But, you’ve got to show her that your type of person is most preferable.
6. WHATS THAT THING PEOPLE LOVE ABOUT YOU BUT YOU FIND IT OVERRATED?
There’s something people love about her. But to her, it’s not all that fancy. You could be the reason why she’ll start paying attention to that thing now.
7. IF YOU HAD A TIME MACHINE WOULD YOU GO BACK IN TIME OR FORWARD?
Just another random question you could ask. But don’t forget to get her answer for whatever reason she gives.
8. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE REMEMBERED FOR?
Ask her this and see how deep she can get. She might be a source of inspiration to you if you’ve never pondered on this question.
9. WHATS YOUR FAVORITE PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTE ABOUT YOURSELF?
Well get to know that physical attribute she’s cocky about. You’ll earn points if you do well to compliment it also.
10. WHATS YOUR BEST QUOTE?
Let’s see how philosophical your girl can get.
11. WHO HAS BEEN YOUR BIGGEST INFLUENCE IN LIFE?
This question helps you get to know the type of person she is.
You get to know who influences her and possibly how that person leaves an influence on her.
12. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN IN A FORCED RELATIONSHIP?
Ask this question if you feel she’s too uptight. She might have had horrible experiences in the past, and is scared to open up to you. Get to know if maybe she has been in a forced relationship before and if she has, this gives you extra reason to treat her like a queen.
13. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF ME?
Funny question here, but you’ve got to know her opinion of you. You might feel you’re very wonderful and all, but why not try to see yourself from her perspective? You might be disappointed or very elated by her response. You’ll never know till you ask.
14. WHERE’S YOUR DREAM PLACE IN THE WORLD?
We all have that particular place we keep fantasizing about, and if possible, well go there and stay as long as possible. Find that place of hers, and maybe you might be able to surprise her by taking her there! Trust me if you do, her love for you will be in abundance.
15. WHO’S YOUR ROLE MODEL?
A role model is someone you look up to, and possibly want to be like. This person helps you set goals you wish to achieve. Get to know her role model. Ask why the person is her role model. Knowing her role model can help in getting things to gift.
16. WHAT’S THAT BAD HABIT YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO STOP?
This is a more personal question. As much as you fancy her good habits, you also have to be aware of her bad habits. Get to know that particular one she really wants to quit but hasn’t or can’t seem to. You might be the motivation she needs to stop that habit.
17. WHAT’S YOUR HAPPIEST MEMORY IN LIFE?
You need to know that memory that really gives her joy. Getting to know this serves as a way of sharing in the memory with her, and letting her know that you’re there to create more happy memories for her. It’s also a way of you promising her that you’re going to create happier memories for her that’ll involve you both.
18. WHERE’S THE CRAZIEST PLACE YOU’VE DONE SOMETHING NAUGHTY BEFORE?
This question is for laughs. You need to know all sides of her. Get to know her kinky side and also be aware of crazy places you might get to have crazy experiences with her.
19. WHAT’S YOUR GREATEST ACCOMPLISHMENT?
From here, you will get to know things you may have never known before. Her accomplishment may blow you away. You might just be shocked by how far she has gotten in life, and I assure you that your respect for her will increase. She might be that driving force you need to push forward in life.
20. WHAT’S YOUR PASSION?
Get to know what her interests are? Help her build on her passion. Plan surprises for her based on her passion. Getting to know her passion is a way off her opening up more to you, and you’ll see that she becomes freer when talking about what interests her.
21. WHAT IRRITATES YOU?
This is another necessary question you need to ask. You need to know what irritates her because you might have been doing it without even knowing, and it has not been going down well with her. If you don’t ask her this question, how will you know that habit you need to stop?
22. WHAT’S THAT MISTAKE YOU’VE LEARNT FROM AND CAN NEVER MAKE AGAIN?
This question enables you have an insight on the life she had before you came into the picture. You get to know things she has done that she isn’t proud of, and know what she learnt from that mistake and why it really affected her.
23. MOVIES OR NOVELS?
Yeah do you know which she prefers between movies and novels?
Would she rather go to the cinema with you or read the book equivalent of that movie? Ask her and get to know. Depending on her choice, ask her favorite movie/novel. With this, you could purchase either the movie or novel, and then you guys could watch/read it together.
24. WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET?
She might have invested in something which later turned sour and still affects her. You could help her build a bridge and get over that regret. You could be that healing factor she needs.
25. DO YOU PLAY ANY SPORT?
As a guy, it won’t be surprising for you to be a sport lover. Most guys admire when their girls turn out to be sport lovers also. Find out if your girl is a sport lover and if there’s any sport she plays. That might be the extra topping you need for your love to overflow.
26. WHAT’S YOUR TAKE ON SOCIAL MEDIA? WOULD YOU DELETE YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS FOR ANYONE?
Social media isn’t a new thing in our world today. Various individuals have their take on social media, and you need to know what your girl feels about it. You also need to know if there’s anyone or any reason why she would delete her social media accounts.
27. WHAT ARE YOUR FANTASIES?
This question enables you discover that hidden kinky side of your girl you might have never known. Let her share her fantasies with you. Maybe you will both get to experience those fantasies together soon enough. This question uncovers that new territory.
28. WHAT’S THE CRAZIEST THING YOU’VE EVER DONE?
We all have that crazy side of us that some tend to keep hidden, while others show it. Your girl might be among those who tend to keep her crazy side hidden. Ask her this question and get to know of crazy stuffs she is capable of doing.
29. WHO’S YOUR FAVORITE CELEBRITY?
Getting to know her favorite celebrity enables you understand certain things about her. Her favorite celebrity may be the one influencing her dressing, dance step, character, etc. Someone’s favorite celebrity may be linked with something in that person’s lifestyle.
Also, get to know the reason why that person is her favorite celebrity.
30. WHAT’S THE MOST TRAUMATIZING EVENT THAT HAS HAPPENED TO YOU?
This question is a personal question, and you need to be careful how you present it because it may be unstable waters. Traumatizing means something that is terrifying. Getting her to open up to you about this means she has trust in you, and you must not break that trust.
31. WHAT IS LIFE TO YOU?
We all have our different definitions of life, and you’ve got to know hers. There would surely be a reason to back up her definition. Get to see life from her perspective. You’ll be surprised at the new things about life you’ll get to learn.
32. WHAT’S YOUR HIDDEN TALENT?
Your girl might be a good listener or a good problem solver, but you won’t know if you don’t find out. Ask her about her hidden talent and discover facts you never knew about her. That talent may come in handy one day.
33. WHAT’S THAT THING YOU’VE ALWAYS WANTED TO DO THAT YOU’VE NOT DONE?
She may have a bucket list full of various things she wishes to accomplish. Get to know all these things, and then get to know the most important one she wishes to do. Imagine the great joy shell feel if you make that wish come true.
34. WHAT’S YOUR DEFINITION OF A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP?
Her definition of a happy relationship serves as a tip, guider and pointer for you. It tells you all she requires and enables you know when you are not doing something right; and determines the effort you should put in.
35. WHAT FOOD BEST DESCRIBES YOUR PERSONALITY?
This question is mainly for laughs. Get to know her favorite food and why. It may or may not give a deeper knowledge to her personality.
36. DID THIS DATE/HANGOUT MEET YOUR EXPECTATION?
If you’re out on a date, you’ll like to know if she’s impressed with the setup of the date and the way it is going. It’ll help boost your confidence if she’s okay with it.
37. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED?
You need to know if your girl is an overly emotional person or not. Ask her the last time she cried and the reason why. Maybe a deep or shallow reason, but at least you’ve shared a moment with her.
38. TELL ME SOMETHING I DON’T KNOW ABOUT YOU
You may think you’re fully aware of matters concerning your girl, but you’re honestly wrong. There are stuffs she might have felts unnecessary to share with you. This question gets to uncover such hidden stuffs.
39. WHAT’S THE MEANING OF YOUR NAME?
The fact that you care enough to ask this question earns you points in her eyes. Little conversation starters like this matter to a lot of girls. Guys may feel this is not important but to a girl, asking this question deems you sweet.
40. WHAT ARE YOUR GOALS IN LIFE?
It’s fantastic when you have a girl with set goals and is striving hard to achieve them. Get her to share her life goals with you. You both may get to achieve them together. This will make a very good conversation topic.
41. WHAT WERE YOU LIKE AS A KID?
This question gets you to know more about her and the type of background she had when she was little. Her quietness now might be a cover up to the fact that maybe she’s not free with you yet. She might have grown up in an environment with no interaction and this makes it difficult for her to converse with you. There’s a reason for everything and you get to know such reasons by asking questions.
42. WHAT HABIT OF MINE ANNOYS YOU THE MOST?
Your best habit might be what pisses her most about you. There might be that habit of yours that makes her closed off. Ask her this question and get to know that habit you have to drop.
43. HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ARRESTED?
Has your girl been arrested before? If yes, ask what the crime was. Was it serious or just a misunderstanding? Was she framed? Get her to open up to you.
44. IS THERE A PASSION YOU’VE STOPPED DOING EVEN THOUGH YOU ENJOYED IT?
She might have loved dancing but might have been discouraged by either family or friends. Let her tell you her reason and try to help her reignite the spark she had for whatever it is she stopped doing.
45. DO I HAVE THE QUALITIES YOU REQUIRE IN A GUY?
You might be seeing yourself as flawless without realizing that your girl might have issues/doubts with the qualities you think you have. Luckily, you might have the qualities she requires or there might be some qualities you need to inculcate.
46. WHAT’S YOUR FAVORITE NON-PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTE ABOUT YOURSELF?
This question helps you to see how confident and strong she is. Let her reveal her favorite non-physical attribute about herself. It might be same choice as yours.
47. WHAT’S THE WORST PICKUP LINE YOU’VE HEARD?
With this, you get to hear all the horrible pickup lines that have been used on her. You also get to know the one that was most horrible. Now you know that pickup line to steer clear of.
48. WHAT’S YOUR BIGGEST FEAR?
This a personal question that needs not to be treated carelessly. For her to share this with you, she has to see that genuine interest in you and know that you aren’t just asking for asking sake. Sharing this with you means that there’s an amount of trust between you guys.
49. WHAT TURNS YOU ON MOST IN A GUY?
Well deviate and play dirty a bit. The answer to this might give you an idea of that physical/ non-physical attribute of yours to either work on or boast about.
50. WHAT DO YOU HATE MOST ABOUT DATING?
While relationships seem cool and all, individuals have their various insecurities about it. Get to know her fear about being in a relationship. Share your own insecurity with her also, and you guys should find a way to push pass it.
Now that all is said and done, have fun with your conversation topics and your convo starters with your woman.
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